Hi there, I’m Meadow DeVor…
I’m a mom, wife, podcaster, YouTuber, coach, and best-selling author of The Spot You’re Not the Narcissist, The Worthy Project, and The Worthy Mind. I teach practical strategies to help you spot manipulation, protect your power, and live free from toxic influence.
Since 2007, I’ve worked with clients all over the world as a coach, self-help author, and teacher. One of my favorite professional experiences was being a guest on The Oprah Winfrey Show — truly a once-in-a-lifetime moment.
My mission is to help you spot manipulation fast, give you simple tools that make an immediate difference, save you years of stress, and keep you safe while you protect your power.
A little about me…
I was raised in beachy California, in a violent and tumultuous family. I know firsthand how devastating it is to have narcissistic parents and the lasting legacy it leaves. It’s been the work of my life to repair the damage to my self-worth, set clear boundaries, know I’m worthy of respect and love, and live without fear — and it’s why I’m driven to share what I’ve learned with you.
This is my sweet partner in life — my husband, Blake.
He’s my behind-the-scenes teammate for everything I do.
It took me a long time, post-divorce (and soooo many bad dates), to find my person. I had to get crystal clear on what I wanted, stop settling for less than I deserved, and have the patience to wait for it. Every bit of that work was worth it because it led me to Blake. He’s my friend, my witness, my husband, and my everyday sidekick.
After narcissistic abuse, trusting anyone — even myself — felt almost impossible. I had to rebuild my confidence, protect my boundaries, and trust my own judgment again. That’s why I’m so passionate about sharing what I’ve learned: to save you years of trial and error, help you spot manipulation fast, and keep your power safe while you find what you truly deserve.
This is my best friend. My daughter, Isabelle.
This picture is from a recent girls’ getaway. We’d just finished a great day of yoga and hiking and stopped for a quick selfie. It makes me laugh every time I see it — a perfect snapshot of our bond and how much fun we have together.
When she was born, I knew I had a choice: miss too much of her childhood or change my career to be home with her. I chose her. I sold my business, shifted my work, and built a career that let me be present.
She now runs the backend of my company and manages social media for me and other online creators. She’s had a front-row seat to the effects of narcissistic abuse — in her own life and through watching me navigate mine. I’ve raised her to spot manipulation, stand firm in her boundaries, and protect her power. She lives these tools every day, and I couldn’t be prouder of the strong, capable woman she’s become.
More than anything, I’m proud of being her mom. It’s the greatest privilege of my life.
If you’re ready to protect your power and live free, you’re in the right place.