Is there a relationship between our deepest, darkest secrets and self-worth? What should you do with old toxic shame? In this episode, I talk about the tendency to conceal or avoid certain memories and how shame erodes your self-worth. I give you a personal example of something that I carried with me for almost ten years, and how, within a matter of minutes, I was finally able to let it go. Learn how to acknowledge your past actions, come to terms with who you were (and who you are now), and use my 3-step tool to turn your darkest secret into something that can actually build self-worth.
The Surprising Link Between Self-Worth and Perfectionism...
How does perfectionism affect self-esteem? When you strive to be perfect are you improving or hindering your sense of self-worth? In this episode, I answer these questions and more. Learn how self-worth relates to perfectionism, and why it often leads to a cycle of procrastination and paralysis. Learn how to recognize the perfectionist pattern, the mantra that I use to end the cycle, and the 4 steps you need to take to immediately build self-worth.
Feeling Lazy? Don't Miss These Self-Worth Hacks
What do you do about self-worth when you're just not feelin' a pep in your step? The answer will surprise you. Self-worth isn't about being a superstar, it's about being real. Listen to what my version of "lazy" looked like before and what "lazy" looks like now. Learn how your ideal image sabotages your self-worth and how to feel good when true self just wants a day off. Learn three simple steps to build self-worth when you're tired, exhausted, or just need an afternoon off.
How to Find Peace: Self-Worth During Holidays
Ever feel overwhelmed when it's time to see the in-laws? What about family gatherings? Holidays? In this episode I give you a quick and reliable tool to change the voice in your head from worthless to worthy. I give you an example of the types of thoughts that I have and what I do (in real time) to build self-worth and get myself ready for any family event.
The Surprising Secret to Boost Your Confidence Before a Big Date
What do you do when you're heading out on a date and you're just not feeling yourself? What do you do when you're having a bad hair day, bad thigh day, or just 'meh' when you look in the mirror? I walk you through a quick and fool-proof way to move from feeling worthless to feeling worthy. Listen in as I do the work in real time as I get ready for a date with my husband.
The Surprising Way Self-Worth Affects Boundaries in Parenting
Does self-worth affect your parenting? The answer is yes. In this episode I share about how boundaries affect parenting, self-worth, and trust. I give you a "before-and-after" example of what my parenting looked like when my self-esteem was in the gutter and what parenting looked like "after" I had a strong sense of self worth. Learn why self-worth work is critical for parents and easy steps to help you start your own worthy work.
The Harsh Truth About Self-Worth and Dealing with Mean Girls
How do you hold your own when you're dealing with someone who isn't very nice? How do you build self-worth (or at least not de-value yourself) when you're dealing with a "mean girl"? In this episode, I share my old strategy (spoiler alert: it was a reliable recipe for constantly devaluing myself) and I share the strategy that I take now. Learn how to keep your sense of "self" and why that builds self-worth.
The Shocking Truth About What Self-Worth Really Feels Like...
Maybe you know exactly how it feels to be insecure, self-conscious, or to struggle with your self-esteem. But do you even know what the goal is? Or how it might feel to truly value yourself? In this quick episode I give you an easy way to think about self-worth and walk you through an example of what this looks like at a dinner party.